It is impossible to listen when you are always in a hurry. Listening takes TIME.
Stop, look into my eyes, ask questions, just listen, don´t think about anything else. Not even about solutions. I don´t need them. I just need your time, your interest. Then, after that, we will find the solutions together, or maybe, by the time I finish telling you my situation, I would have found the answer to my questions.
I love the way you listen to me. Thanks for listening 🙂